Ok, ok, ok, so I admit it. I was a lazy mom. Really lazy, I mean, the laziness I’m talking about may reach epic proportions. And I have reasons, very good, valid ones, before you start to judge. I was lazy because I didn’t want to really wake up at night with my newborn, and because I didn’t want to bring extra stuff in my already full diaper bag (who knew babies came with so many accessories?!), and because it was so very easy (except for the learning curve at the beginning), and because after all the research I consulted, I found it to be the healthiest thing I could do for myself and my sweet little lady. And in all of this, I am not the least bit ashamed of my laziness, nor will I ever apologize for it.
What was I so lazy about?! I chose breastfeeding over formula feeding (nearly exclusively for the first 8 months, and with supplementation of solid food and formula from 8-13 months). My choice was made out of convenience for me, but also for health, environmental, ethical, and moral reasons. This was my choice, because the preparation of formula seemed crazy, when I had milk stored, ready, warmed, and perfect for my baby, at every stage of her development. So why would I purchase formula and bottles, and go through a lengthy preparation process (which most people do not do correctly). Some people say that formula preparation is simple, but I argue that it is not. As new parents to a newborn who would take about 3 hours to nurse, because she fell asleep so often at my breast, we would undertake a lengthy preparation process (incorrectly, I might add, if you’re wanting to prepare the formula safely according to the preceding link) of bottles of formula at night when she would wake up (and guess what I would do, I’d pump!). It seems as though I could have known more about bed-sharing or co-sleeping (and I do now), so I could have gotten the much needed rest that all new mothers crave, while feeding my baby.
I soon discovered that I wanted to snuggle my warm baby against my body so I could nourish her with my milk, rather than feed her with a product that was derived from the milk of a cow who was forced to wean her baby way too soon (seems to me the calf deserved her milk, not my baby Sydney). And we got used to each other, and sometimes we even slept in her rocking chair at night, cuddling with each other, Sydney nursing at leisure, and me getting some rest. We had a wonderful breastfeeding relationship, and this is one of the reasons I am proud that I was so lazy.
But now, human innovation has developed a product that seems to make formula preparation as easy as preparing your morning cup of coffee. A new product that touts, “It’s very simple, very intuitive, hygienic and of optimum safety.”, according to Martin Grieder, Nestle’s head of advanced nutrition systems. And because baby bottle warmers are not enough, people now have the option of simply putting a capsule of pre-measured formula into the machine that provides the proper portion of water, at the proper temperature, so it is (indeed) like making coffee. All of this, but at what cost? Allow me to evaluate:
- Money – The capsules themselves are said to cost roughly double the cost of canisters of formula, and the machine is an additional cost (at $284 US Dollars). Not to mention the cost of bottles for the formula to go in.
- Time – Whether a person is preparing a bottle of formula, or a machine is, there is still time that is being taken to do so. We must also account for the amount of time that a hungry baby has to wait.
- Environmental – Not only are factory farms milking cows and creating huge waste, but the transportation method used to ship said milk to factories that make the infant formula, and the formula making process itself are environmentally unfriendly. The canisters or capsules that formula is placed in also clog our landfills and are killing our planet.
- Convenience – I seriously doubt people are going to bring these machines with them when they are out and about, so it seems that the “convenience factor” goes right out the window.
- Health – Research has proven that babies that are formula fed are at a much greater risk of developing many diseases and health problems (diabetes, obesity, heart disease, ear infections, cancer, and the list goes on and on and on). Additionally, mothers who do not breastfeed also do not reap the health benefits such as a reduced risk of cancer and diabetes.
- The only milk that is perfectly portioned, the perfect temperature, and perfect for a baby/toddler/child at all stages of development is (human) breast milk.
- The cost of breastfeeding is minimal when compared to infant formula.
- Breastfeeding is the most convenient way to feed a baby – unfasten bra, pull bra down, pull shirt up, latch baby on, look deep into the eyes of your child whose love is unconditional and unending, and enjoy.
- Mothers who breastfeed actually get MORE sleep than formula feeding mothers. Breastfeeding mothers can pull a baby to her breast and fall back to sleep.
- Breastfeeding mothers are not using another species milk to give to their babies.
- Breast milk is always going to be the most perfect food for babies.
- Mothers of all socioeconomic backgrounds can breast feed, and it will not break the bank.